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How to get your man to Wear a Condom

 

Condom use is the only effective way to reduce the risk of HIV transmission during anal intercourse.

So get your man to suit up.

 

Here are some clever ways to get him to wear a rubber—

  • WEAKEN HIM—During foreplay try to prolong the magic so that when you finally take out a condom he’ll be too dazed to object. Be sure to have plenty of sex toys handy, but be careful not to use oil-based lubricants.

  • ENTERTAIN HIM—Try making the experience fun for him. Do a song and dance number about how much he’ll love the condom.

  • IGNORE HIM—Comments like “I don’t like condoms,” “I don’t want to wear one,” and “It’s harder for me to finish” do not mean he won’t wear a condom. Remember he’s just making suggestions. Discuss why it's important to you for him to wear a condom.

  • SHOW HIM THE DOOR—It’s your body. It’s your choice. Remember, one night of mind-blowing sex isn’t worth whatever consequences the future may hold.  Let the little fish swim back into the sea and shrug off the evening. It may hurt at first, but in the morning you and your ego will feel like a million bucks.

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